Be Happy! After All it’s Your Marriage

Wedding brings along a series of functions, responsibilities and chores, which makes you very tired and at times are highly time consuming. The customs performed in these functions depicts the essence of the marriage. All these traditions are inter-connected and to a great extent are performed to lighten up the holy spirits in the marriage atmosphere. Often, while performing these tasks, we forget that it is our marriage, a day which comes once in lifetime. This day needs to be celebrated in its best way. And why not, it’s your marriage? Accomplishing the duties of a host is must, but at the same time, you need to make sure that you enjoy each and every moment of your marriage.

Marriage in India holds a great importance, it can also be called as a mixture of all festivals, with house lit up magnificently same as Diwali, colours of happiness spread across the home like Holi along with different poojas performed as in other sacred occasions. Taking the blessings from the God and elders is main thing you must seek for in all the wedding functions. With all the cousins, relatives and friends around, you tend to cherish the old memories and create some new moments, which add to your memories for future. In all the arrangements of marriage, you should not forget becoming a part of those moments and witnessing the cheerfulness spread around. The atmosphere in Indian marriages is totally different, all spirits are high with utmost happiness and seeing your closed ones relishing the same feeling as yours makes you feel contended. Organising everything in a systematic manner with timely arrangements, helps you enjoy your marriage without tension. Also, those responsibilities can be given to someone close and reliable.

Being a part of every small thing of your marriage, from chit chatting with the aunties to dancing with your friends and the selection of your wedding attire, gives you gratification and as the times passes you actually get to feel the nervousness and anxiety of marriage.

Mood – The X Factor in a Relationship

It is usually said God has destined all our lives and we all are bound to live every single page of our life story. God must be a magician, because doing all this and defining different goals for each person is really a commendable task. He makes us meet our loved ones and frames the situation in such a way that we tend to fall in love with them. Marriages in India are said to cover one of the most important chapters in our life. We are always believed to fulfil the expectations of our life partner with full dedication. Love and care are the most necessary elements, which counts for the stability and longevity of a marriage. Other than this, there are many factors which drive the route of happiness and contentment in marriage. One, of the factors, which plays the role of X- factor in married life, is your mood. The temper or the state of our mind plays an imperative role in bonding with our life partner.

Many- a-times, a professional problem spoils your mood and at that point you need to make sure that you do not burst out anger on your spouse. As advised by elders, you should never let your professional problems create new ones at home.  Mood fluctuations can make it difficult for your partner to judge your personality. Also, he or she would always be in a fix about your frame of mind. But changes in mood can be really helpful in case if it is on the positive front. A very encouraging and a romantic change in mood happen due to change in weather. A beautiful weather has the power to bring out the romantic personality in you. Giving romantic surprises to your soul mate can make him feel good about you as well as about the relation. Therefore, making small efforts like these can lit up his mood and would surely add lovable memories to your married life.